Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Relationship – Today’s scenario


Relationships are becoming common these days .Even the age at which they start is getting low and low. Everyone wants to be a part of someone’s life to feel the immense of love. But are relationships made really because of love? Do they really feel love for each other? It’s a short and important question. This is a topic not to be switched off easily. Relationships – The moment this word comes at mind, a new word seems to appear. People feel good to be in a relationship but at the cost of their self respect, emotions, and feelings and sometimes happiness also. Today relationships are not made for the similar reasons they were made earlier. Relationships are becoming fake day by day. Everyone wants a secure life even at a cost of love. Nobody wants to feel the love of heart, indeed love has an all together different definition which comprises of the mean benefits of people, Be it money or personality. Today love means physical interaction more than emotional attachments. Having sex before marriage is a status symbol nowadays. It is true that when we can accept western attire why can’t we accept their norms too? But are these norms really need to be followed in the similar manner? Obviously not. We need to understand our culture, norms, traditions, customs which definitely doesn’t allow us to be a part of such thing. Besides all this, our parents who brought us at the place, where we can’t reach without their support, they consider us a part and parcel of their life. How can we let the immense love of our parents for so many years go in one throw for the sake of some sort of relationship and that too fake. Parents do expect a lot from their children. Instead of fulfilling them, how can we let them down, not in front of society but in their own eyes? Social Networking sites are providing a boost to these fake relationships. Talking two strangers is good enough unless and until it has a limit. Being into a relationship with such strangers does not lead to a “happy end” always. Relationships were made earlier also but the aspirations and demands differ as today.

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